Change Your Child's Life! Turn Negative Behavior into PositiveTraits How do you deal with a difficult and defiant child or teenager?What can you do if your child has been diagnosed with oppositionaldefiant disorder (ODD) or is resentful and constantly in trouble atschool? Are there constructive ways to channel such oppositionalenergy and determination? Dr. John F. Taylor will tell youhow. Inside, you'll find new hope and hundreds of specific, sensible,and easy-to-implement suggestions for improving life with arebellious and argumentative child. Parents and teachers — anyonewho deals with difficult children, teens, or young adults — willalso learn how to tap the potential of these natural-born leadersby discovering how to: ?Understand why an oppositional attitude exists ?Open up new, safer avenues for children to express needs andwants ?Enhance communication, avoid common mistakes, and reduceundesirable behavior ?Teach a child conscience-based self-control ?

A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heartof complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician andbestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing andmisunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in thelives of our children. Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, whichrefers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peersfor direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identityand codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines familycohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters anaggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides apowerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence;its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangsand criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado;Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend thathas never been adequately described or contested until Hold Onto Your Kids . Once understood, it becomes self-evid

The years from Ten to Fourteen are undeniably trying andturbulent years for parents and children alike. Adolescents developby leaps and bounds during these years, and often find themselvesuncomfortable with who they are and what they’re feeling. Parents,too, don’t know what to expect from the adolescent child who is atone moment hostile and glum, at the next carefree and happy. YourTen- to Fourteen-Year-Old was written by renowned child-careexperts Louise Bates Ames, Frances Ilg, and Sidney Baker to helpprepare parents for the incredible changes their children will begoing through. Included in this book: · Boy-girl relationships and sexual curiosity · Clubs, hobbies, activities, sports · Trouble at school · Family life and relationships with siblings · Physical development—the awkward adolescent · Summer jobs and independence · Money matters · Personal hygiene · Moodiness, loneliness · Smoking, drinking, drug use

Remember what your mother used to say? She used to say a lotof things. So did all our mothers. Well, in case you forgot orweren't paying attention, here is the wit, wisdom, and worry ofmothers of every race, religion, or ethnicity, otherwise known asMomilies. Smile, as you relive those years in an instant,with: "You're not the only pebble on the beach." "It'll never get well if you pick at it." "Don't run with a lollipop in your mouth." "Always put on clean underwear in case you're in anaccident." . . . and many more! And for YET more, there is MORE MOMILIES. From the Paperback edition.

In this dark gem of a book by the author of The Kiss, acomplex mother-daughter relationship precipitates a journey throughdepression to greater understanding, acceptance, freedom, andlove,. Spare and unflinching, The Mother Knot is Kathryn Harrison’scourageous exploration of her painful feelings about her mother,and of her depression and recovery. Writer, wife, mother of three,Kathryn Harrison finds herself, at age forty-one, wrestling with ablack, untamable force that seems to have the power to undermineher sanity and her safety, a darkness that is tied to herrelationship with her own mother, dead for many years but no less ahaunting presence. Shaken by a family emergency that reveals thefragility of her current happiness, Harrison falls prey to despairand anxiety she believed she’d overcome long before. A relapse ofanorexia becomes the tangible reminder of a youth spent trying toachieve the perfection she had hoped would win her mother’s love,and forces her to confront, understand, and ul

“I wonder sometimes if there’s something to the oldsuperstition about the number thirteen. Maybe that superstition wasoriginally created by the mothers in some tribe who noticed that intheir children’s thirteenth year, they suddenly became possessed byevil spirits. Because it did seem that whenever Taz was around,things spilled and shattered, calm turned into chaos, and temperswere lost.” So laments the mother of one thirteen-year-old boy, Taz, a teenwho, overnight it seemed, went from a small, sweet, loving boy to ahulking, potty-mouthed, Facebook/MySpace–addicted C student whodidn’t even bother to hide his scorn for being anywhere in theproximity of his parents. As this startling transformation floors journalist Beth Harpazand her husband, Elon, Harpaz tries to make sense of a bizarreteenage wilderness of $100 sneakers, clouds of Axe body spray (tohide the scent of pot?!), and cell phone bills so big they requirenine-by-twelve envelopes. In the process, she begins chroniclingh