For more than sixty years the rock-solid, time-tested advice in this book has carried thousands of now famous people up the ladder of success in their business and personal lives. With more than fifteen million copies sold, How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the best known motivational books in history, with proven advice for achieving success in life. You ll learn: three fundamental techniques in handling people; six ways to make people like you; twelve ways to win people to you way of thinking; nine ways to change people without arousing resentment; and much, much more! ,
中国的精英青少年们如何获得地位? 以及为什么这有助于他们成功? 《学神》展示了中国青年如何准备自己加入全球精英行列。上海纽约大学社会学助理教授社会学助理教授姜以琳展示了这些好胜的中国高中生是如何首先成为 学神 的,学神是指学业成绩优异的学生。然而,不断学习并不能解释他们的成功,因为这些年轻人在毫不费力地取得种种卓越成就。相反,姜探索精英青少年如何通过吸收和执行围绕地位的规则来取得成就。 通过八年的实地考察和大量访谈,姜揭示了中国青年在追求精英地位的过程中所吸取的重要教训。他们了解地位体系的等级制度,认识到并获得有价值的特征。他们通过期望区别对待和执行基于地位的行为来维持地位,这些行为指导他们与同龄人、老师和父母的日常互动。最后,在足智多谋的父母的帮助下,面对潜在的障碍和失败,他们